FAQ - What happens in a Tantric Massage

Frequently asked questions on Tantric Massages and general information.
What is a Tantric Massage?

A tantric massage first and foremost a spiritual approach to massage, utilising an energetically based, hands-on approach to bodywork. If authenticity is maintained and tantric principles are preserved, then this sophisticated form of a massage can bring about miraculous healing effects and is very therapeutic in nature. It is acclaimed for its ability to eliminate sexual and energetic blockages while restoring vitality, stamina, longevity, youthfulness, and vigor. We balance the yin and yang energy within your body to a harmonious state. 

However, the beneficial effects can extend far beyond these. A person can experience a remodeling of his or her entire being and be awakened to profound and illuminating outcomes that transform lives in unexpected ways. 

A tantric massage is a combination of the ancient teachings of Ayurveda and teachings of energy from tantra. The combination of pressure points, massage, and energy flow make this an extremely powerful therapy for a higher goal.

Can you explain what happens in a Tantric Massage? Is the whole body worked on?

I get asked this a lot. The therapy is explained on my website but here it is again. 

The session is done on the floor where I have a professional massage mattress with freshly washed sheets. The room is fully sanitised before you attend and is also deep cleaned once the session is over. 

As mentioned, this is a spiritual massage where we heal through energy, pressure points, and massage. Healing with energy is the main difference between a Tantric massage and deep tissue massages. 

This therapy is a perfect blend of the principles of Ayurveda and Tantric teachings. This makes it a holistic therapy that can penetrate the deepest of blockages within the body and aura. It heals on a physical, mental, and psychosomatic level. Each chakra is worked on and balanced to spin at the desired speed and intensity to maintain a healthy body. 

The whole body is worked on in detail where each muscle, vein, and channel is cleared. This is why it takes 3 hours or more to work on the whole body. First working on the back, shoulders, buttocks, legs, feet, and then on the front, chest, arms, stomach, thighs, legs, erogenous zones, neck, ending with a calming head massage. 

Do I have to fill out a medical consent form?

Yes. This is a legal requirement. The medical form goes through lifestyle questions and ends with a consent to the therapy which must be filled out online with the link sent to you once an appointment is booked at least 3 days prior to the session. 

Is this a body to body massage? Is the therapist naked? Do you have any female therapists?

As mentioned previously, this is a spiritual massage and not an erotic one. There is no body to body massage here, the massage is done for healing and not sexual. I am an independent male therapist that goes by the name of Hari Trivedi. I do not employ any other therapists and there is only myself that carries out the therapy. 

Does the massage have a “happy ending”? You won’t believe how many ask me this…

NO. Straight and simple. This is not what we do as a true tantric practitioner. There is no ejaculation or wastage of energy. Yes the organs get worked on but only to release any tension in the muscles and to sublime the energy in those areas.

Can I do a same day booking?

No. All sessions must follow the correct protocols of a phone consultation, followed by booking a mutually agreeable date in the diary. My calendars are usually quite booked up so please don’t expect an immediate appointment. 

How long is the session? Can you do shorter sessions?

The session times vary from person to person, they usually last around 3 hours or so, sometimes more. It all depends on what gets released in the session as it’s my responsibility to let you leave balanced.

Are you a qualified Tantric Massage Therapist?

Yes I am. I have a qualification as a Tantric Massage Therapist from Somananda Tantra School, I also have Reiki qualifications and have been practicing healing for over 15 years now.

Can this therapy help cure previous trauma, other situations like insomnia, premature ejaculation etc?

Yes. The therapy is the perfect blend to help to get to the root of situations you may be facing. If you have been subject to trauma, then this will help you to overcome it and move on. Trauma is a deeply rooted topic and can cause a range of imbalances within the body. The good news is, this can be cured through Tantra. 

Can you do massage exchanges or discounts? Can I pay you later? Do you need a photographer?

Please don’t embarrass yourselves by asking for massage exchanges as this is a professional therapy and payment can be either made by BACS or cash. I also do not need a photographer and neither can I permit any videos or photos to be taken during our session. 

Can my partner come and watch us? Can you see us as a couple?

No. This is because it conflicts with the energy in the room as I only see 1-1 clients. Also it prevents the receiver from expressing themselves. 

Where are you based? Can you do outcalls?

I have a therapy room here in Leicester, Syston and I only see clients here, I do not do outcalls.

Do you see all genders?

Yes. My therapy does not have any boundaries on sexual orientation. It is ideal for there to be a polarity of energy, hence a male therapist like myself will see a stronger connection with a female receiver purely because it maintains the polarity of Yin and Yang.

Do you have shower facilities?

Unfortunately I do not have any shower facilities here. I can provide fresh towels if you wish to freshen up and use the toilets. 

Can I keep my piercings in during the session?

No. If possible, it would be perfect if all jewellery, piercings were removed. Metal causes reactions with the energy flow of the massage. 

What do you use during the massage? Do you use tools, toys, kinky or tickling objects?

The massages are done using organic oils and no other tools, toys etc are NOT used at all during the therapy. This is a professional massage and not a sexual one. 

Is the receiver naked?

Yes the receiver is bare-bodied but they are constantly covered with soft sheets and only uncovered when I work on a certain area and recover once done. Also we require body hair in the genital area to be shaven or trimmed for hygiene and energy flow purposes. 

I am shy, ticklish, sensitive, I am not confident, what if I get turned on? Will this cause an issue?

Please rest assured that everything is handled in a harmonious manner. It is natural to feel this if it’s your first time or you don’t have the confidence. I have been practicing for many years now and know how to make you feel relaxed, secure and safe. If I feel you’re maybe feeling aroused, I stop and work on another area and then see how things progress. The touch during the session is always communicated on how you like pressure, there is no tickling or stimulation like that during a tantric massage. 

What do I need to bring to the session?

I provide everything. You can bring your own water bottle, towels and bathrobe. If you are allergic to nuts, please let me know as I use organic almond oil and pure aromatherapy oils.  Most of all, bring a healthy smile and the universe will provide

What is the price of a session? How can I pay you?

The sessions have a fixed price of £222. Payment in full must be made to confirm the booking via BACS. There are no discounts offered so please respect this as it is a long session and requires alot of physical work from my side.