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Nowadays, both men and women are openly looking to learn more about their sexuality, wishing to deepen and expand their orgasmic potential and level of intimacy. For men, exploring the Tantra Lingam Massage may be one option for gaining valuable answers, experiences, and insights.
The Tantric Lingam Massage
The shiva lingam, a symbolic representation of the sexual union between a man and a woman, is found frequently in Indian temples and other place of worship.
Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis. It is a spiritual term denoting the male genitalia and it broadly represents fertility. The lingam is worshipped in many esoteric cultures as the symbol of Shiva, the supreme being or ultimate God of Tantra and Yoga.
Tantra Lingam Massage is a practice which uses various techniques that activate the sexual energy and help a man to release blockages that may prohibit him from experiencing deep sexual pleasure, multiple orgasms, and the ability to channel and move his energy and that of his partner. Through specific pressure points on the lingam, testicles, and perineum a man can experience extraordinary spiritual and energetic effects.
A Path to Spiritual Sexuality and Awakening
Tantra Lingam Massage can also go MUCH deeper. With practice, it teaches a man how to harness and utilize his sexual energy in a wise and yet radical way outside the realms of sexuality, thereby transforming himself into a vira – a spiritual hero and warrior, one who heroically reclaims his innate masculinity and Shiva nature.
Tantra Lingam Massage educates a man on how to harness and utilize his sexual energy in a wise and yet radical way outside the realms of regular sexuality.
Although orgasm is not the end goal of this type of massage, it can be a pleasant result and secondary effect. However, the orgasmic experience in Tantra Lingam Massage is atypical to a common ejaculatory experience. Instead the energy is channeled in a particular way and dispersed throughout the entire body, producing a whole-body energy orgasm. In this type of tantric orgasm there is no loss of energy, and instead, a huge gain in a man’s pleasure and pleasure potential.
Tantra Massage and Tantra Lingam Massage: What is the connection?
Tantra Massage is a whole-body experience that amplifies, controls and directs innate energies.
Tantra Lingam Massage is a part of the greater system or modality of Tantra Massage. Tantra Massage is a modern creation (not stemming from the original tantric teachings), but very much rooted in the ancient fundamentals and laws of Tantra and energy control.
Tantra Massage is a hands-on, whole-body, holistic approach to massage that incorporates, uses, directs, and controls energy. It is extremely therapeutic and healing in nature and addresses all parts of the body, genitals included. Lingam massage is simply one of the many techniques that falls under the full-body protocol of a Tantra Massage session.
In a typical Tantra Massage session the whole body is massaged, from head to toe, which is explained in more detail later in this article. Lingam massage can also be included in a session if a male client and therapist both agree it will be helpful and beneficial in successfully achieving specific goals such as healing, releasing blockages, removing traumas, remedying sexual dysfunctions, or others.
Tantra Lingam massage is not dirty or kinky, nor is it for sexual purposes. The truth is that the genitals, for both men and women, are powerful organs and storehouses of energy. They are also home to many blockages, stress, and unresolved emotions. To ignore the genitals in order to abide by outdated conservative mores and beliefs around sex and sexuality would be a great injustice.
So, in sum, lingam massage is not an erotic massage for men that culminates in an ejaculatory orgasm. It is not to satisfy an urge or a lewd sexual act or service. At least, according to the tradition, it shouldn’t be. Unfortunately, this is how it is oftentimes depicted and offered in modern times. In this article I hope to shed light on authentic Tantra Lingam Massage, its intended purpose and its wildly transformative power for men.
Types of blockages in different parts of the body
Both men and women experience blockages at various levels of their beings. Such blockages differ between the genders in terms of nature, locality, and quality, but nevertheless, they are present and common in both men and women.
Blockages can manifest physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually in a man. However, their origin is always energetic. This means that the energy in a particular area or aspect of a man is disturbed long before it manifests as something more tangible and concrete in the physical body or as a psychosomatic imbalance.
Blockages can appear as common health problems, sexual dysfunctions such as premature ejaculation or impotence, depression, excessive emotions, mental instability, lack of confidence, fear of intimacy, a blockage at the heart, insensitivity or oversensitivity, addiction to masturbation or porn, and others.
Tantra Massage and Tantra Lingam Massage, because they are energetically based and focused, provide the perfect therapy and solution for releasing and removing blockages. After all energy is unlimited and so is its healing potential. It is this energetic aspect that empowers Tantra Massage to touch a man on all levels of his being – physically, energetically, emotionally, mentally, sexually, and spiritually.
Doesn’t it make sense to use an energetic treatment to heal energetic disturbances and energetic deficiencies? Energy heals energy.
This remarkable and spiritual approach to massage has become a necessity in modern times, helping today’s men achieve spiritual, emotional, and sexual evolution and revolution. The aim of Tantra Lingam Massage is to heal blockages, awaken inherent energy channels, channel the sexual energy in a particular way, and transform pleasure to a spiritual level in order to use it for a divine purpose.
The lingam: A pillar of power
The lingam is not only a physical organ for pleasure or procreation. It is a pillar – physically, energetically, and symbolically – of power as well as a storehouse of exceptional energy.
In Tantra the lingam is considered a pillar of power and an important organ with great energetic potential.
Tantra Lingam Massage serves a great purpose, primarily to reconnect men to their true Self, their true nature, and to reclaim their legacy and birthright as men. This far surpasses the common assumption and misconception that Tantra Lingam Massage is an erotic massage that culminates with a release and ejaculation. We assure you it goes much deeper than that IF the practice is rooted in true tantric principles and foundational knowledge.
Most men have either lost this sense of self and purpose or, due to a lack of proper education, are led to believe their power and masculinity are unwelcome and even offensive. Tantra rejects this view entirely.
Through precise and specific techniques, Tantra Lingam Massage helps a man to learn how to reconnect to this inherent, but oftentimes hidden, aspect of himself, to befriend and embrace his masculinity, and to develop the ability to control the lingam energy.
With time and regular practice of Tantra Lingam Massage, he can rebuild himself from the ground up and transform from the inside out. Eventually he comes to understand the core of who he really is and realizes that his true nature is interconnected with cosmic consciousness. He develops a genuine masculine spirit by unleashing latent qualities that already exist inside of him but were suppressed and perhaps cloaked in shame or embarrassment.
Contemporary and superficial masculinity
It is important to note that in Tantra the understanding and explanation of femininity and masculinity goes very deep into the esoteric and metaphysical realms. It far surpasses and exceeds our basic understanding of the genders, or typical superficial masculine and feminine qualities.
In Tantra authentic masculinity is the embodiment of the yang energy and is represented by principles such as stability, honor, emissivity, control and solidarity.
In Tantra masculinity and femininity are universal principles that exist in all of nature. Without the masculine AND the feminine, the yin AND the yang, the plus AND the minus, this reality would cease to exist. Both are essential to life.
All living matter reflects a combination of both feminine and masculine principles. A woman embodies both the feminine aspect and the masculine aspect and the same goes for a man, who also embodies both masculine and feminine – as difficult as it may be to conceptualize.
Equally important to qualify is that when we say masculinity or the masculine potential, we are not referring to the contemporary view of masculinity that is depicted today. Aggressiveness, war-like attitudes, and signs of the “alpha male” typology – machismo, toughness, and emotional aloofness – are, in fact, not true signs of masculinity, but rather superficial imposters clouded by egotistical and self-indulgent tendencies.
In the tantric tradition, authentic masculinity is the embodiment of the yang energy, the energy of control and emissive force. Practically it manifests as focus, centeredness, solidity, decisiveness, detachment, and objectivity as well as the ability to internalize and interiorize at will and on command.
Additionally, a man sincerely rooted in veritable masculinity will act from a place of selflessness, spiritual responsibility, compassion, and altruism. Actions will be carried out for a noble greater good, not for any promise of fame, fortune, or ego gratification.
According to Tantra, true masculinity can only be reached by transcending the ego, not through inflation, and finding meaning and purpose in something greater than themselves.
What does an authentic Tantra Lingam Massage look like?
Remember, Tantra Lingam Massage is just one part of a whole-body experience. A Tantra Massage session may include lingam massage as part of the healing experience but is not exclusively this. It is vital that a trained therapist prepares a man physically and energetically before massaging the lingam itself.
Advanced teacher, Liisa Maimon, takes the initial steps in preparing our male model for a Tantra Lingam Massage while students of our Tantra Massage Therapist Training observe.
A Tantra Massage session can be anywhere from 1.5-2.5 hours in length, providing ample time to bring a state of calmness to a man’s mind, body, and spirit. When a man is relaxed, he is more open to receive, trust is established between him and the therapist, and he is primed and prepared to release unwanted blockages, stress, and/or suppressed emotions. Relaxation also activates the parasympathetic nervous system, the only system that can trigger a cascade of healing mechanisms and effects.
This serene state is induced through a series of massage techniques and applying pressure to key energy points. Oil is applied and the entire body is massaged from head to toe. A typical session begins with first addressing the less intimate parts of the body, such as the upper back, legs, and chest. Once the man is brought to a state of relaxation, the energy channels are sufficiently awakened, and the energy itself is correctly controlled and moving in the right direction, then and only then might a trained therapist move toward lingam massage.
The lingam massage itself is not sexual or erotic in nature. You can wipe any visions or fantasies out of your mind that involve hand stimulation or oral stimulation of the lingam, for the purposes of arousal and fated ejaculation. In fact, very rarely is the lingam erect during the lingam massage. An erection will actually prohibit all of the techniques from being applied and is an indication that a man has not been fully prepared, energetically speaking, to receive lingam massage.
Additionally, a man is not brought to an ejaculatory orgasm in an authentic lingam massage. This would be contrary to ancient tantric principles. Instead, the sexual energy is contained and maintained. This is what makes the full-body energy orgasm possible for a man and the key for becoming a true tantric man.
I know this may sound disappointing to many men as most assume the only form of pleasure that can be achieved is through ejaculation. This is inaccurate, however. Men have been programmed to believe that their orgasmic potential is minimal, and the pinnacle of their pleasure is experienced in a five- to ten-second orgasm, followed by a loss of precious fluid and energy. Tantra says otherwise and the Tantra Lingam Massage is the means for men to access indescribable forms of deep, fulfilling, long-lasting, and sustained pleasure as well as multiple orgasms.
A step-by-step guide to a Tantra Lingam Massage
Preparation
There are many things a man could and should do before receiving a Tantra Massage session, inclusive of Tantra Lingam Massage, in order to prepare himself and provide an optimal landscape for the powerful effects to take place.
A detox or cleanse is one of the many ways a man can prepare for a Tantra Massage session.
Here are a few recommendations for how you can get the most out of your session:
- Avoid coffee or alcohol for 48 hours minimally (longer is better) prior to a session.
- A cleanse or detox that is three to seven days in duration beforehand can prove to be very beneficial. Check with your doctor before beginning a cleanse.
- Avoid any drugs or toxic substances for at least seven days prior to your session. In the case of pharmaceutical drugs or medications, continue taking them as prescribed by your doctor, but do share your regimen with your therapist.
- Eat lightly on the day of your session. Ideally you should arrive on an empty stomach to the appointment.
Discussion
Prior to your first appointment, it is recommended to have a discussion with your therapist. Be as open, candid, and honest as you can be about your health history, past traumas, perceived blockages, sexual dysfunctions, goals for a session, and any other pertinent information. The more details you can provide to your therapist the better he or she will be able to discern whether Tantra Lingam Massage is a good fit for you. In some cases, more time and preparation are needed before a session is scheduled.
A short discussion on the day of your scheduled appointment is also helpful. This is to help create a connection point between yourself and your therapist, and also to share what you hope to achieve in that particular session, as this can change from session to session.
Setting intentions
It is helpful for the subconscious mind if you take a moment to reflect on why you were originally drawn to Tantra Lingam Massage. What sort of outcome do you hope for? Are there specific issues you wish to alleviate from your mind, body, and spirit? Are there blockages you are aware of that you would like to focus on? Being clear and setting intentions is a powerful way to manifest the results you desire.
It is wise to share your intentions and goals before a Tantra Massage session so that your therapist can customize and individualize the session appropriately.
You can also share these intentions with your therapist and he or she can partner with you in helping you to achieve a desired outcome by customizing and individualizing your sessions appropriately.
Equally important in the intention-setting process, however, is letting go of expectations. Grasping onto expectations, timelines, and anticipated results can hinder the effects from taking root and can become a blockage in and of itself. So, while setting intentions is a powerful tool once you are clear on your goals and wishes, surrender these intentions to something higher than yourself and trust that everything that unfolds is divinely guided.
Relaxation
Prior to receiving a lingam massage your therapist should have provided a full-body massage experience to help you relax and to prepare you physically, mentally, emotionally, energetically, and spiritually. The serene atmosphere and the massage itself should lull you into a more calm, detached, and liberated place.
As the receiver you can also take simple steps to induce deeper relaxation as well, such as:
- Focusing on your breath and how you feel as each technique is applied and perceiving the sensations brought about by each massage stroke. This will keep your mind from running amok and keep you focused on the experience itself and the present moment.
- Visualizing and imagining energy moving up from the lower parts of your body to the higher parts.
- Speaking up and providing feedback to your therapist in the event something is painful or uncomfortable or if you need more or less pressure.
- Saying the word “relax” silently, in your mind, over and over again, as though you are trying to hypnotize yourself and convince your mind and body to relax more and more.
Exploration of the lingam
It is recommended to ask your therapist to let you know when she is coming close to giving the lingam massage. In that moment honestly evaluate yourself and discern whether you feel comfortable, relaxed, and truly open to receive. If the answer is yes, ask your therapist to proceed.
In some cases, more time and preparation may be needed, or you may choose to focus on whole-body work and energy movement instead. Do not be shy about expressing yourself and let your therapist know exactly what you need. Additional sessions may be required before you are ready for Tantra Lingam Massage.
Tantra Lingam Massage is a series of precise techniques that serve to cleanse the area of stagnant energy, disperse the energy throughout the entire body and clear away blockages.
The lingam massage is executed in a series of steps:
Step 1: Important energetic points in the groin and pelvic area are activated.
Step 2: Nine precise techniques are applied to the perineum, testicles, and lingam. These techniques serve to cleanse the area of stagnant energy, remove blockages, and activate latent energy points.
Step 3: The released energy is then sublimated in an upward direction. At this stage, the experience is one-of-a-kind for every man. He may be drawn into a state of full-body energy orgasm. He could experience a euphoric and blissful state of mind. It is also possible he may have an emotional release or the release of a blockage. All outcomes are equally weighted on the healing spectrum and will be exactly what that particular man needed in this session. Regardless of what arises, your therapist will guide you through the process harmoniously, navigating all aspects from start to finish, ensuring a unique and profound experience.
Recovery and integration
The therapeutic session concludes with a final relaxation exercise, a guided circulation of energy, and concentration in the area of the heart. The man is left feeling energized and harmonized, celebrated and honored for his true Shiva nature and an overall sense of well-being.
The effects and benefits of Tantra Lingam Massage
With its focus on awakening and sublimating powerful energy through specialized touch, Tantra Lingam Massage – when practiced with skillful care and attention – can bring a plethora of significant results and effects for a man.
The following effects and benefits can be experienced:
- Rejuvenation of the whole body
- Healing of chronic ailments
- Dispersion of powerful energy throughout the entire being
- An increase in sexual awareness and orgasmic potential
- Alleviation of blockages
- Liberation of potent stored and stuck sexual energy
- Awakening of the heart
- Balancing of hypersensitivity and hyposensitivity issues
- Reminding the man of his true masculine nature
- Potential ignition of the full-body energy orgasm experience
- Helps with premature ejaculation and sperm mobility is improved significantly
- Plus, much more!
Experiencing this wondrous and inspiring bodywork is a rare opportunity for all men to reach deep and satisfying fulfillment in love and life. Tantra Lingam Massage teaches a man how to refine his animalistic tendencies, become a more skillful lover, and use his masculine energy in a powerful and divine way.
Tantric Yoni Massage
Tantric Yoni Massage can shape and even reshape a woman’s life in many ways. Besides helping her to find spiritual clarity, it can have a massive healing effect on the body as well as provide a natural antidote to a variety of common women’s health problems and sexual dysfunctions. It is renowned for eradicating blockages of all kinds, including physical, mental, emotional, energetic and sexual.
Unfortunately, such benefits are often overlooked and understudied in many neo-Tantra offerings of today and this remarkable massage modality is reduced to a basic erotic massage for women.
In this article, however, I aim to reveal this life-changing practice as the magical, mysterious, and spiritual experience it can and should truly be!
The Tantric view of women
Tantra embraces the universal concept of polarity, where both the yin and yang aspects are fundamental to all of creation.
Simply put, tantric philosophy explains the construct of the universe according to the principles of duality or polarity, where there exists a manifested aspect and an unmanifested aspect. All of reality can be explained and defined according to these two aspects.
In Tantra all that is manifested is known as Shakti, the universal energy or divine feminine creative power. Everything that is a manifested element in this reality emanates from the Shakti, or feminine principle. It is the energy of action, power, creation, and life force. This aspect resonates with the feminine principle, the characteristic of yin, or the minus (-) polarity, as we see with a battery.
By contrast, the unmanifested is known as the Shiva consciousness and resonates with the masculine principle, the concept of yang, or the plus (+) polarity.
It is important to understand that the feminine and masculine principles far surpass and exceed our basic understanding of women and men. In fact, all living matter reflects a combination of both feminine and masculine principles. A woman embodies both the feminine aspect and the masculine aspect and the same goes for a man, who also embodies both masculine and feminine – as difficult as it may be to conceptualize – because he is a manifested, energetic being. However, being born into the body of a woman with its accompanying physiology, biology, and psychology – which differ greatly from a man’s – means that a woman more closely and easily resonates and vibrates with the Shakti, feminine, goddess essence.
Tantra thus considers women to be natural born tantrics. As Tantra, at its basis, is the science and study of energy, or Shakti, it recognizes that all of reality is made up of Shakti and realizes that there is great power in this energetic force. A woman by virtue of her physical structure is simply more innately connected to the universal Shakti. Said another way, the microcosmic version of Shakti is a woman and the macrocosmic version of Shakti is the universe and all of creation. This means that a woman in and of herself is a nuclear and energetic force with vast and unimaginable potential! Tantra worships Shakti, and to that end, it employs specific techniques and technology to activate, control, modulate, and harness the Shakti energy that is both in us and all around us.
The yoni: a powerhouse and a storehouse
The yoni of a woman is both the beholder of great power, and at the same time, a repository of unresolved stress and emotions.
Yoni is a Sanskrit word that refers to the female genitalia. It is the word tantrics use to refer to the vagina. The female genitalia are indeed a part of a woman’s body that she should not neglect or ignore for many reasons – some more obvious than others.
For one, the yoni is a powerhouse and the home where a very potent and powerful, latent energy dwells. Because most modern-day women are unfamiliar with tantric practices, this energy lays dormant and stagnant as mere untapped potential.
Secondly, the yoni is also a storehouse. Stress, emotions, fear, worry, hardships, and traumas tend to accumulate at the level of the yoni in women. Due to its internal structure, women tend to internalize much of their outer world in their inner world, their yoni-verse. It should come as no surprise that eventually, such heavy factors layer up in the yoni, causing impediments to pleasure and the full experience of energy – blockages – and other common female health issues.
The third reason women should not ignore their yonis is because, simply, it is their pleasure and healing center. However, in order to access this domain, one must first tap into the yoni’s inherent energy and heal the aforementioned blockages.
Tantric Yoni Massage, when done correctly, addresses all of this, plus much more.
Types of blockages in different parts of the body
In modern times everyone has blockages. They are equally prevalent in men as in women. However, for women, blockages tend to accumulate more often than not in the yoni. This is the reason why Tantra Massage includes genital massage, or more specifically, Tantric Yoni Massage. It is not for the purpose of eroticism or lewd activities. It is solely for healing and spiritual purposes. Even so, the effects and results of this practice are not one-dimensional. In fact, they are multidimensional and far-reaching. So, while the aims of Tantric Yoni Massage lie in the healing and spiritual realms, the benefits extend into every single aspect of a woman’s life and can transform her sexually, emotionally, mentally, and energetically as well.
Blockages can originate from various sources such as childhood memories or traumas, one’s upbringing, physical or sexual abuse, and other psychosomatic issues.
Blockages can originate from various sources such as childhood memories or traumas, one’s upbringing, injuries, surgeries, ignored and stored emotions, stress, health problems, physical or sexual abuse, long-term unhappy relationships, childbirth, disease, toxins and impurities, karma, and past lives, just to name a few. They can be physical, energetic, emotional, mental, sexual, or even psychosomatic in nature, and the root cause can vary from one individual to another.
A blockage can be compared to a virus that runs in the background of a computer. There is often no evidence that it is present, and yet it wreaks havoc in subtle, unsuspecting ways on the operating system. In this example, the operating system is a metaphor for the subconscious mind. Blockages feed information to our subconscious minds which then dictate our conscious and outward actions and behaviors.
How exactly a blockage manifests can vary from person to person. It can show up on the physical level as a disease, illness, or pain in the body, for example. Emotionally a person with a blockage may be prone to depression, crying, erratic emotions, difficulty in loving or feeling loved, trust problems, fear without basis, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm. On the mental level blockages can appear as mental disturbances or disorders, chaotic thoughts, or the inability to concentrate. Sexual dysfunctions such as frigidity, erectile dysfunction, or diseases of the sexual organs are often signs that a sexual blockage is present. Energetic blockages generally appear at the level of the chakras, or the energy centers of the human being. This is by no means an exhaustive list, but it can provide some insight into how imperceptible blockages may present themselves on the different levels of a human being.
It is not uncommon to accumulate blockages if, for example, she stays in a perpetually unhappy or unsatisfying relationship.
Because the exact origin of a blockage cannot always be determined, it is crucial that they are released in a carefully managed and mindful way. A skilled therapist is essential to the process, and his or her proper training is key.
Hysterical and uncontrollable releases or releases that are of a sizable nature can be more harmful than helpful and can further embed the blockage into a woman’s body. When the release is by harmonious and gradual means, it can be incredibly liberating and healing. A woman can experience a remodeling or restructuring of her entire being and may immediately feel a sense of relief, joy, and contentment.
What does authentic yoni massage look like?
It is important to understand that Tantric Yoni Massage is just one part of a whole-body experience. It is vital that a trained therapist prepares a woman physically, emotionally, and energetically before massaging the yoni itself. This is done by massaging the whole body, from head to toe, in a precise and specific way and by incorporating energy into the practice.
Before a woman receives tantric yoni massage she must first be brought to a state of relaxation and surrender.
A woman needs first to be brought to a state of physical relaxation, which can take some time. A typical Tantra Massage session can be anywhere from 1.5-2.5 hours in duration, which provides ample time to bring a state of calmness to a woman’s mind, body, and spirit. In this condition she is more open to receive and more prepared to release any blockages, stress, and stuck emotions. Relaxation also activates the parasympathetic nervous system, bringing the body to the only state that can trigger a cascade of healing mechanisms and effects.
Next, a woman needs to feel emotionally safe and secure so that the yoni exploration is comfortable, which in turn allows her to surrender to the process. In this state a woman allows the energy to germinate like a sprout, growing and developing to ultimately free herself of traumas or baggage that no longer serve her. Trust needs to be established between the therapist and client and an emotional connection created. Starting with the less intimate parts of the body and addressing the body as a whole creates the soil for such necessities to take root before the yoni is massaged.
Energetically a woman needs to be primed. The basis of all Tantra Massage practices, including Tantric Yoni Massage, should be energy, which is at the forefront of this practice. A skilled therapist activates and harnesses the innate life force within a woman and facilitates its movement in a certain way. Before the energy can be awakened and moved, the energetic channels need to be cleared and opened. Since subtle energetic channels pervade our entire being it is essential that energy work is performed throughout the entire body. A series of techniques combined with pressure point activation prime a woman energetically to assimilate the effects of the massage.
Once these crucial steps have been achieved a woman is ready to receive Tantric Yoni Massage.
Tantric Yoni Massage acts as a gateway between an ordinary life and an extraordinary life, ordinary sex and extraordinary sex, and being an ordinary woman and a tantric woman!
How to begin a Tantric yoni massage?
How is the yoni massaged and released, you might ask? This is difficult to describe in definitive terms simply because of the diverse methodologies and philosophies that exist on the topic. If you had a treatment from five different massage therapists you would have variable and distinctive experiences based on each therapist’s training, background, and experience. It is no different with Tantric Yoni Massage. The experience will vary from practitioner to practitioner.
However, here are the states and steps that a woman can generally expect when an expert and skilled therapist is involved:
Preparation stage
A detox is one way a woman can prepare herself before a Tantra Massage session.
There are many things a woman could and should do before receiving a Tantra Massage, inclusive of Tantric Yoni Massage, in order to prepare herself and provide an optimal landscape for powerful effects to take place.
Here are a few recommendations for how you can get the most out of your session:
- Avoid coffee or alcohol 48 hours minimally (longer is better) prior to a session.
- A cleanse or detox that is 3-7 days in duration beforehand can prove to be very beneficial. Check with your doctor before beginning a cleanse.
- Avoid any drugs or toxic substances at least 7 days prior to your session. In the case of pharmaceutical drugs or medications continue taking as prescribed by your doctor.
- Eat lightly on the day of your session. Ideally you should arrive on an empty stomach to the appointment.
Discussion
Prior to your first appointment it is recommended to have a discussion with your therapist. Be as open, candid, and honest as you can be about your health history, past traumas, perceived blockages, goals of a session, and any other pertinent information. The more details you can provide to your therapist the better he or she will be able to discern whether Tantric Yoni Massage is a good fit for you. In some cases, more time and preparation are needed before a session is scheduled.
A short discussion on the day of your scheduled appointment is also helpful. This is to help create a connection point between yourself and your therapist and also to share what you hope to achieve in that particular session, as this can change from session to session.
Setting intentions
It is important for a woman to be able to openly share and discuss intimate details with her Tantra Massage therapist so a session can be customized.
It is helpful for the subconscious mind if you take a moment to reflect on why you were originally drawn to Tantric Yoni Massage. What sort of outcome do you hope for? Are there specific issues you wish to alleviate from your mind, body, and spirit? Are there blockages you are aware of that you would like to focus on? Being clear and setting intentions is a powerful way to manifest the results you desire.
You can also share these intentions with your therapist and he or she can partner with you in helping you to achieve a desired outcome by customizing and individualizing your sessions appropriately.
Equally important in the intention-setting process, however, is letting go of expectations as well. Grasping onto expectations, timelines, and anticipated results can hinder the effects from taking root and can become a blockage in and of itself. So, while setting intentions is a powerful tool once you are clear on your goals and wishes, surrender these intentions to something higher than yourself and trust that everything that unfolds is divinely guided.
Relaxation
Prior to receiving yoni massage your therapist should have provided a full-body massage experience to help you relax and to prepare you physically, mentally, emotionally, energetically, and spiritually. The serene atmosphere and the massage itself should lull you into a more calm, detached, and liberated place.
As a receiver you can also take simple steps to induce deeper relaxation as well, such as:
- Focus on your breath and how you feel as each technique is applied and perceive the sensations brought about by each massage stroke. This will keep your mind from running amok and keep you focused on the experience itself and the present moment.
- Visualize and imagine energy moving up from the lower parts of your body to the higher parts.
- Speak up and provide feedback to your therapist in the event something is painful or uncomfortable or if you need more or less pressure.
- Say the word “relax” silently, in your mind, over and over again, as though you are trying to self-hypnotize and convince your mind and body to relax more and more.
Exploration of the yoni
It is not uncommon for many women to be oblivious to the inner landscape and workings of her yoni.
It is recommended to ask your therapist to let you know when he or she is coming close to giving the yoni massage. In that moment honestly evaluate yourself and discern whether you feel comfortable, relaxed, and truly open to receive. If the answer is yes, ask your therapist to proceed. In some cases, more time and preparation may be needed, or you may choose to focus on whole-body work and energy movement instead. If this is the case do not be shy about expressing yourself and let your therapist know exactly what you need. Additional sessions may be required before you are ready for Tantric Yoni Massage. This can be especially true for women who have experienced trauma or sexual abuse in their lives.
The yoni massage is executed in a series of steps:
- Step 1: The groin, pelvic area, and external genitalia is gently massaged, and energy is sent to the area.
- Step 2: The therapist slowly enters the yoni and locates the G-spot. Release and activation work are done here as this can be a place that is numb or insensitive for many women.
- Step 3: The therapist begins mapping the yoni. This means a skilled exploration and healing of the yoni “canal.”
- Step 4: If blockages, emotions, or painful memories arise the therapist will guide you through the process, helping you to release these harmoniously. It is also possible for a woman to experience great pleasure, a sexual awakening, or a full-body energy orgasm during the yoni massage. Both outcomes are equally weighted on the healing spectrum, and will be exactly what that particular woman needs. Regardless of the manifestation of release, any scenario can leave a woman in a euphoric and elevated state of mind.
Recovery and integration
The therapeutic session concludes with a final relaxation exercise and a circulation of energy. The woman is left feeling energized and harmonized with an overall sense of well-being.
Heal thyself
Many women report after receiving a tantric yoni massage a feeling of liberation and relief from heavy baggage and old blockages.
For the many women who suffer from common female health issues such as cystitis, severe menstrual symptoms, regular candida or bacterial vaginosis, endometriosis, and/or sexual hindrances such as lack of desire, an inability to experience pleasure or orgasm, or painful sex, Tantric Yoni Massage is the answer.
This unique, hands-on approach heals a woman from the inside out, getting to the root of many health issues and sexual blockages. Not only is there an alleviation of symptoms but there is a discernible newfound freedom whereby women can reclaim their health and rediscover the true meaning of sexual liberation.
Tantric yoni massage – a woman’s true liberation
So far, we have learned that Tantric Yoni Massage cannot only heal common health issues and eradicate various blockages, but it can also unleash unrealized power. And here is where it becomes unrivaled in a class of its own: Tantric Yoni Massage acts as a gateway between an ordinary life and an extraordinary life, ordinary sex and extraordinary sex, and being an ordinary woman and a tantric woman! A woman’s entire being can be remodeled through this practice and, as a result, the “promised land” of deep, fulfilling sexual pleasure and intimacy most just dream of becomes not only accessible, but a living reality. It is truly a woman’s true liberation!
Effects of Tantric yoni massage
With its focus on awakening energy within the yoni through specialized touch, Tantric Yoni Massage – when practiced with skillful care and attention – has a multitude of effects. It:
- Rejuvenates the whole body
- Heals chronic ailments
- Sensitizes the female genitalia
- Increases sexual awareness and orgasmic potential
- Alleviates blockages
- Liberates potent stored and stuck sexual energy
- Inspires confidence, happiness, and contentment
- May ignite a full body energy orgasm experience
Experiencing this wondrous and inspiring bodywork is a rare opportunity for all women to reach deep and satisfying fulfillment in love and life. Many women report a soul-opening bliss and feminine blossoming that transforms their lives dramatically.
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